Sep 4, 2009

Join us on Sept. 13 - Walk-Ins Welcome!


Be a part of Team Superman on Sunday, Sept. 13 at the Childhood Brain Tumor Foundation "Stride for Life" 5K Walk/Run and Kids Fun Run!The 5K starts at 9 a.m. Check-in starts at 7:30.

The address is: 1400 Lake Fairfax Drive, Reston, about seven miles west of Tyson’s Corner.Directions:From 270 - Take Beltway to VA-267 W - Dulles Toll Rd. After about 1.7 miles merge onto LEESBURG PIKE / VA-7 W via EXIT 16 toward LEESBURG. Travel on Rt. 7 for about five miles and turn left on Barron Cameron Road. At the second light turn left onto Lake Fairfax Drive. This road will lead you into the park. Look for signs leading to event site.

Park website: http://www.fairfaxcounty.gov/parks/lakefairfax/lkffxdirections.htm

Matthew Grossman, College Freshman





Last week, our family had an emotionally intense experience of the positive variety for once.

Like so many of our friends, we packed up the car with all manner of teen necessities, and drove many hours from home to deliver a child to college. But Matthew's route to college was, of course, anything but ordinary - and we were acutely aware of that.

For two days before school started, we had medical appointments in New Hampshire and Vermont, setting up a medical safety net, so that Matthew will hopefully have support nearby, in case he needs it. Around those visits, we explored Hanover and Brattleboro, and visited various local landmarks like the Cabot cheese creamery and the King Arthur Flour Factory Store. We had a lot of fun.

Our last night together in the hotel, Matthew sat on the bed and played his guitar. I asked him to play "Wonder Wall," by Oasis, a song he had sung many times in the hospital. The lyrics of that song always get to me:

"And all the roads we have to walk are winding
And all the lights that lead us there are blinding
There are many things that I
would like to say to you but I don't know how
Because maybe, you're gonna be the one that saves me
And after all, you're my wonderwall"

Listening to him, I recalled all the times he'd sung that for the doctors, and I thought of all the doctors who'd treated Matthew over the years, who had been his "wonderwall." The next day, on the way to Landmark College, we stopped and bought a stack of postcards (Vermont apparently lends itself to scenic postcards), and Matthew signed them, and I tucked them into my purse for later.

We went through registration and move-in, transforming Matthew's tiny shoebox of a room into a homey space. The whole family chipped in, with Matthew directing. By the end, the room looked great.




From this...




To this...

By 12:30, we were done, with time to spare before lunch. So, Matthew, Jon & Danny fanned out across the lawn in front of Matthew's dorm, and started winging the Frisbee to each other, pulling other kids into the game. I sat and watched Matthew, blending in with the other college freshmen, and felt I was witnessing a miracle.

That evening, after we'd attended parent orientation sessions, and eaten two meals with Matthew in the dining hall, and said a mini goodbye, knowing we'd see him again the next day, we returned to the hotel. I pulled out the stack of postcards, addressed them to the various members of our medical team, and wrote the same note on each one: "Today, Matthew started at Landmark College in Putney, Vermont. Thank you for helping us reach this day."




Aug 9, 2009

It's That Time Again!









It's time for Team Superman's annual appearance in the "Stride for Life" 5k Walk/Run & Kids' Fun Run to benefit The Childhood Brain Tumor Foundation

Sunday, Sept. 13, 9 AM
1400 Lake Fairfax Drive
Lake Fairfax Park, Reston, Virginia
(close to Tyson's Corner, same location as before)

Please join our family and be a part of Team Superman this year!

For the third year in a row, we will meet at a beautiful park, on a (hopefully) sunny September Sunday, to celebrate life, support a worthwhile cause, stand with families like ours, whose lives have been changed by a childhood brain tumor, and honor those who tragically lost their struggle.

Brain tumors remain the deadliest form of childhood cancer, with 3,400 new cases diagnosed each year. More research is desperately needed to develop safer, more targeted and more effective treatments.

Since 2007, Team Superman has raised sufficient funds to support a two-year study that examines new approaches to treating recurrent mixed germ cell tumors of the brain, the very rare and difficult-to-treat diagnosis that Matthew faced. We plan to bring you a research update in the coming months.

In the meantime, please mark the morning of September 13 on your calendar and plan to join us. Whether you walk or run, it's a fun chance to exercise, see people you know, and come out for a great cause.

You may have already received a brochure/registration form in the mail. If not, click on the link at the top right corner of this site to download a copy in .pdf format. Advance registration ends September 1.

We look forward to seeing you!

Jaime, Jon, Matthew & Daniel

Aug 11, 2008


Team Superman Flies (Walks? Runs?) Again!

Last year, as you know, our goal was to fight back against the rare, malignant form of brain tumor that attacked our son. And, with your help, that’s what we did!

We collected over 400 donations and raised more than $50,000 for germ cell tumor research. In the spring, the Childhood Brain Tumor Foundation (CBTF) issued a special call for germ cell tumor grants and is now providing major funding for a two year clinical study.

Thank you for supporting our cause and for helping us achieve our goal.

This year, we are asking only for your participation…!

This year, our goal is simply to gather together, celebrate life, and support the CBTF and other brain tumor families.

Please join our family at the 2008 CBTF Stride for Life/5K Walk/Run
Sunday September 7, 2008 at 9:00 AM
At Lake Fairfax Park, in Reston, Virginia (close to Tyson’s Corner; same location as last year, but different course)

Whether you’re a returning participant or joining us for the first time, we would love to see you!

You can register one of two ways:
1. Online at http://www.active.com/page/Event_Details.htm?event_id=1599209&assetId=30d10fa3-77b5-4ba3-ab67-baa3e576ede5

2. Or print out the attached registration form, fill it out and mail it in.
http://www.childhoodbraintumor.org/FINAL2008_Stride-NEW_final%20Web.pdf

On the registration, be sure to note you’re on TEAM SUPERMAN – so we can include you in our team mailings and in the T-shirt count!

Advance registration closes September 1.
If you have any questions, drop me an email.

Hope to see you there!

Jaime, Jon, Matthew & Daniel

Oct 9, 2007

Team Superman Soars!












“Team Superman” made a dramatic appearance at the Childhood Brain Tumor Foundation (CBTF) 5K on Sunday, September 30. Our team numbered more than 150 and accounted for approximately half of the participants at the event. Moreover, we were highly visible in our brightly colored Team Superman T-shirts! It was a phenomenal day -- the weather was perfect, the trail through the woods was serene and beautiful, and we were incredibly grateful to be together. Special thanks to those of you who got up early on a Sunday morning to join us. Additional photos may be found at: http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=8958q09.blh1d0yx&x=0&y=-be461s.

We thank all of you for generously supporting the cause of pediatric brain cancer and for helping us turn Team Superman into a reality. All of the money raised will be used to fund a study on germ cell tumors of the brain, Matthew's rare diagnosis. To date, we have raised over $40,000 -- more than twice our original goal! Thank you to all of you for making this possible.

With much gratitude,
Jaime, Jon, Matthew & Daniel

Sep 19, 2007

We're on Track...


...to meet our goal - and surpass it!

A HUGE thank you to everyone who has contributed to our campaign so far! Thanks to the generosity of so many, we whizzed past our initial goal of raising $20,000 and have set a new goal of $30,000, which will allow us to attract a stronger pool of proposals from major research institutions. If you'd like to donate, please go to our fundraising page at www.firstgiving.com/TeamSuperman.

If you are wavering about joining us for the 5K Walk/Run, there is still time to sign up. You can register in advance online at http://www.active.com/ and walk-ins will also be accepted. The event will be held at Lake Fairfax Park, Reston. I visited the park today. It's a beautiful site, about 7 miles northwest of Tysons Corner Center (see sidebar, top right, for directions). We'll be following a circular route, and many of us (myself included) will be walking, not running. So there's no excuse for not coming out and joining us! If you register by September 20, you're guaranteed a really sharp looking Team Superman T-shirt. After that, I can't make any promises, but we'll do our best.

By the way, I've just learned that September is National Childhood Cancer Awareness Month, which makes our campaign even more meaningful. The Conquer Childhood Cancer Act was introduced in both houses of Congress earlier this year with the aim of increasing federal cancer funding by $150 million over five years; however, the bill remains stalled. In the meantime, more than 12,500 children are diagnosed with cancer annually and 1/4 of them lose the fight, not to mention those whose lives are irreparably altered. Brain tumors are the deadliest form of childhood cancer; yet, according to the Children's Oncology Group, the leading consortium of childhood cancer researchers, "survival rates for Central Nervous System (CNS) tumors have not seen a dramatic change across the board in the past twenty years." In my opinion, it's a national disgrace. But this is not the time or place...

A HUGE thank you to all of you who are supporting Team Superman with your contributions and/or with your participation in our upcoming event. We are overwhelmed by all of the support we've received and deeply grateful. We look forward to seeing you on the 30th!

Sep 3, 2007

Team Superman Soaring High

Thanks to all of you, Team Superman is off to a super start!
As we move into September, we are already at 40% of our goal - and we are tied for first place as the most popular fundraising page on the firstgiving.com website. This is all fantastic!

There is still plenty of time to sign up for the 5K Walk/Run. The advance registration deadline is September 20. (You can still register after that, or even as as walk-in, but the fee is slightly higher.)

If you'd like to register, either email me for a brochure (jbanksresearch@comcast.net) or download it at www.childhoodbraintumor.org/events.html. When you register, be sure to indicate that you are part of Team Superman AND please drop me an email as well, so that I can keep a running list of team members.

Please contact us if you have any questions - and thank you for your support!


Here are some recent photos:





Having a Blast at Ali's 25th










Woodneck Beach, the Kids' Favorite






Back to School, 6th and 11th Grades

Jul 8, 2007

What's New with Us?

Announcing Team Superman

During those many long months of struggling to get even one step ahead of Matthew's brain tumor, we could only dream of a time when we, as a family, might have an opportunity to strike back against this dreaded disease. Well, we feel that time has come...

We are excited to announce that we are organizing Team Superman (for the significance of this name, check out our 2/2/06 posting) to participate in the Childhood Brain Tumor Foundation "Stride for Life 5K Walk/Run" on Sunday, September 30, in Reston, Virginia.

All proceeds raised by Team Superman will be used to fund a study on germ cell tumors of the central nervous system (Matthew's diagnosis). Research is seriously needed to fight this rare disease. One of the more horrific aspects of our ordeal was that, after Matthew failed his initial chemo protocol, there were no data to guide his treatment. Our goal is to raise sufficient funds to support one good study that will advance understanding of treatment options.


We will be sending out more info by email and mail in the next few weeks on how you can support Team Superman with your participation and/or donations. We would love to include everyone who reads our blog and might be interested in participating. If there's a chance I might not have your email and home address, please send this information to
jbanksresearch@comcast.net so that I can keep you in the loop.

Thank you in advance for supporting us in this effort!!!

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... and a Long-Overdue Update

It's been a long while since I posted a family update. Now that we're back home and in a mostly normal routine, it's hard for me to know what and how much to post. (My thinking goes like this: If our lives are more or less similar to everyone else's lives at this point, why would anyone want to read about us?) Nevertheless, I run across a fair number of people who say to me (wistfully? reproachfully?): "You're not writing the blog anymore, and I miss it," and this gives me the encouragement to post this brief update of what's been happening in our lives over the past few months.

Family Trip to Utah

We had an awesome spring break trip to Utah for five days of skiing, followed by five days of touring the national parks.

For Matthew it was a sweet return to the sport he loves so much and a relief to find he had lost none of his skill or balance. Danny turned into a real skier on this trip, leaving me behind after the first day and heading off with Matthew & Jon for tougher trails. For the second half of the trip, we drove across much of Utah and hiked the gorgeous scenery of Capitol Reef, Bryce Canyon, and Zion National Parks. It was quite spectacular.

















Matthew's Trip to Russia

Matthew had an amazing time in Moscow. He stayed with a most welcoming host family, met some fantastic people, saw many sights and took a ton of photos. His dominant impressions were 1) that Muscovites don't generally smile in public, and 2) that life in Moscow is very different from life back home. His best story involves how he and the host son, Daniel, talked their way into a disco, (despite not being old enough), using math skills to impress the bouncer into thinking they were college students. It's a lot more colorful the way Matthew tells it.



















Race for Hope

The first weekend in May, our family, along with several friends, participated in the Brain Tumor Society Race for Hope 5K to support brain tumor research. This amazing event attracted more than 6,000 participants and raised over $1 million. At the check-in area we had the unexpected pleasure of running into both Matthew's neurosurgeon from Johns Hopkins and our consulting neuro-oncologist from Children's National Medical Center. As the race started, it was uplifting to see Matthew among the large group of yellow-shirted survivors surging down Pennsylvania Avenue toward the U.S. Capitol building, as well as sobering to see how many lives are affected by this devastating disease.



School Year Round-Up

Well, without mincing words, the 10th grade school year was extremely tough: Matthew spent every ounce of energy and nearly every second of free time doing homework just to keep up with the workload - and he was still going to have to attend summer school this summer and next if he was going to graduate on time with his class.

On the sidelines, Jon & I were becoming more & more convinced that something "had to give." After getting loads of valuable input from friends and professionals (and friends who are professionals!), we sat down with school personnel and came up with a proposal to extend Matthew's high school term by one semester beyond 12th grade. The proposed plan permits Matthew to remain with his class while taking a reduced schedule over the next 2 1/2 years, have breathing room over the summer, and postpone SATs/college planning for another year. We are all pleased to have arrived at this option and hope that it will make our lives considerably less stressful!


Summer Plans

Summer has gotten off to an excellent start. Matthew is concentrating on fulfilling his high school community service requirement. He attended two weeks of community service camp downtown and is now working two afternoons a week as a youth counselor at The Children's Inn, with children who are receiving treatment at the NIH. He is also practicing with the swim team, working out with a trainer, playing guitar, and catching up with friends. He turned 16 last month, but so far has not pushed too hard on the driving front!

Danny (who has sprung up like a weed and is now practically my height) has been attending a very active day camp for the past three weeks (one week left to go), where they swim twice a day, play all kinds of sports (soccer, football, ultimate frisbee, etc.), go kayaking and horseback riding, do drama and art, and come home pleasantly exhausted.

In mid-July, both boys will head off to different sleepaway camps and Jon & I will fly up to Maine for a week of biking, kayaking, and hiking. Later in the summer, when the boys come home from camp, we hope to spend a week on Cape Cod visiting Jon's mom.

Hope you are having a good summer. We'll be in touch!







Apr 3, 2007

Getting Involved in Advocacy


I can't believe it's been so long since my last posting. There is MUCH to report and I would like to give a more detailed update when time permits. But for now, here are the highlights:

1) Matthew continues to do extremely well with his cochlear implant. School and everyday social encounters still present lots of challenges (most of which he takes in stride), but comparatively speaking the c.i. is a vast improvement. He is hearing so much better than before the implant, it really is tantamount to having his life back again.

2) Matthew was recently thrilled to be awarded one of eight slots on an exchange program to Russia sponsored by The Jewish Federation of Greater Washington. On April 22, he will travel with seven of his schoolmates to Moscow for a one-week visit. The kids will be housed with English-speaking families, sightsee, and participate in joint programs. We are grateful that Matthew's health and hearing are well enough for him to take advantage of this wonderful opportunity,

3) On March 15, I was pleased to attend the re-introduction (the bill was unsuccessfully sponsored last year) of the Conquer Childhood Cancer Act in the House, sponsored by four Congressmen, including our own Rep. Chris Van Hollen. This bill, introduced in the Senate as well, calls for $30 million annually over a five-year period to be dedicated to childhood cancer research. At the press conference, I was approached by a reporter who later called to interview Matthew. The story went out on Maryland Newsline (here's the link: http://www.newsline.umd.edu/health/pediatriccancer031507.htm) and was picked up by the Baltimore Examiner (http://www.examiner.com/a-624248~Teen_s_cancer_battle_illustrates_need_for_funds.html).

It's almost impossible to believe , but 1 in 330 Americans develops cancer before the age of 20, and brain tumors are now the most common cause of cancer-related death in children, having surpassed childhood leukemia.

Now that Matthew is in a more stable place, we are eager to apply our talents and energies to fighting pediatric brain tumors. We are also looking for ways that we can help other families faced with this devastating diagnosis. More on this to come.

Jan 31, 2007

We've Got Him Back!


Matthew's cochlear implant was activated today - and it works! And he's able to hear!

Early this morning, the four of us headed up to the Johns Hopkins Listening Center. Matthew says he was nervous, but also excited, as were we all. We had waited so long for this day to arrive, it was hard to believe it was finally here.

I plan to post some links that will explain cochlear implants in more detail but, in a nutshell, the external device includes three components: the speech processor, which is connected to a cable, which is connected to a headpiece. The processor is worn over the ear, like a hearing aid. The headpiece attaches by magnet to an internal receiver implanted under the scalp. The receiver is connected to a long filament of electrodes that threads into the cochlea.

Steve, our audiologist, started off by testing the implant to be sure all 16 electrodes were in good working order. Then, he placed the processor on Matthew's ear and began activating each of the electrodes, one a time, to determine the highest volume level that felt comfortable. All Matthew could hear at this point were individual scratching sounds, but he was smiling nonetheless because, as he described, "it was incredible to hear such precise, keen, sharp sounds - exactly what you lose with a hearing loss."

Then, the moment we had all been waiting for - the microphone was turned on, we held our breath, and Steve started to speak aloud. First, Matthew's face broadened into a grin and then he laughed. "You sound like a chipmunk!" he said. Later, he amended the comparison: "You all sound like giant bugs, but understandable bugs; and understandable bugs are a lot better than non-understandable people!"

It is typical for cochlear implant users to say that, at first, everyone sounds like cartoon characters. Cochlear implants do not restore accoustic hearing; they replace it with electronic hearing. In a normal ear, millions of tiny hairs respond to vibrations of the eardrum and stimulate the auditory nerve to send signals to the brain. With a cochlear implant, sounds are coded electronically by the speech processor, then sent through the cable, through the headpiece, to the receiver under the scalp, to the electrodes inside the cochlea. These electrodes fire the auditory nerve and send messages to the brain; but a limited number of electrodes cannot capture the full range of sounds that our ears are able to perceive. Thus, c.i. hearing sounds somewhat flat and synthetic - at least until the brain learns to adapt.

Matthew says it sounds as if everyone is talking through a voice changer. "It's like nothing I've ever heard before." As he knew to expect, music sounds terrible (because the current technology is not great at converting music) but this is expected to improve as Steve introduces new programming strategies and Matthew's brain adjusts to the new stimuli. And Matthew is still able to enjoy music with his non-implanted ear. Overall, in his words, "It's awesome." In Danny's words, "It's a miracle."

Matthew has had a great early response to the device. Many c.i. users take weeks or longer to be able to hear the radio or speak on a telephone. But Matthew was able to hear both right away. As Matthew gets used to the implant, he will be able to take in a expanding range of sounds. We will be returning to see Steve again in two days, and then again in a week. At each visit, he will reprogram the processor - and Matthew's hearing experience should improve.

We asked Matthew how he wanted to celebrate this major new step. "By going to school," he answered. So we dropped both boys off at their respective schools, and Jon & I went out for a celebratory lunch. Two administrators from school called this afternoon to let me know how great Matthew was doing, and when I picked him up late this afternoon, he was in a wonderful mood. Tonight we were able to have a dinner conversation for the first time in many months. We are clearly off to a very good start - and we are so grateful.

Jan 22, 2007

Milestone

We're at Day 365 post-transplant. I've got no words to top that.
Instead, how about some recent pix:


Clowning around at home











Impromptu guitar lesson in Captiva, FL, over winter break







Waiting to board the flight home